I HAD A GOOD LIFE…
I JUST KNEW THERE WAS MORE.
A few years ago, I was looking ahead to the woman I wanted to become, and I realized something uncomfortable. Everything in my life looked good on paper. I had the corporate career, the promotions, a “good” relationship, and all the conventional markers of success. And I was genuinely grateful for them.
But gratitude and honesty can exist at the same time. The more honest I became with myself, the more I realized that some things no longer felt aligned.
I think a lot of women know this feeling. You check the boxes. You build a good life. You become the woman everyone assumes has it figured out. And in the process, you can start silencing the part of yourself that still wants more.
Wanting more can feel selfish. It can feel greedy. It can feel like you’re overlooking all the good that’s already in front of you. So you stop talking about it. You convince yourself you should just be happy. You keep doing all the right things, hoping the feeling will eventually go away.
What I’ve come to understand is that gratitude and openness can exist at the same time. We can be deeply grateful for what we already have without deciding that we have to stop wanting more. Many of us have learned how to appreciate what’s in our hands, but very few of us have learned how to stay open to receiving what we don’t have yet.
Gratitude says, “Thank you for what I have.” Open hands say, “Thank you for what I have, and I’m still open to more.”
That realization changed my life.
THE DAY I OPENED MY HANDS
Once I admitted that truth to myself, I couldn't ignore it anymore. I left my corporate career, ended my relationship, moved to another state, and started over. It was one of the hardest decisions I've ever made. It was also one of the best.
Over the years that followed, my life changed in ways I never could have planned. I met the love of my life. I built a business I genuinely love. I received an opportunity to live and work abroad. I released 30 pounds of excess weight. I called in friendships that felt like sisters. I created a life that feels slower, lighter, softer, and more intentional.
For a long time, I assumed those things happened because I finally found the right strategy. Looking back, I see it differently.
The biggest change wasn't my circumstances. It was the way I moved through life. I stopped expecting and protecting myself from disappointment. I stopped believing I had to earn every good thing through hustle and exhaustion. I stopped holding on so tightly to outcomes, and trying to control every detail.
Little by little, I learned to live with open hands.
And no, that didn’t mean simply thinking more positively. I had to change the subconscious patterns that shaped how I thought, what I expected, and how I responded to life. I had to teach myself that it was safe to experience joy, love, opportunity, rest, abundance, and the things I had been praying for.
That’s when life began to feel different.
And today, that's the work I share with other women. Because you can know exactly what to do and still find yourself repeating the same patterns if your subconscious is operating from an old story.
THIS IS YOUR INVITATION…
For nearly a decade, I’ve helped women make the same kind of shift I had to make in my own life: trusting themselves more, changing the patterns that no longer serve them, and becoming more open to what they truly want.
As a Mindset and Subconscious Reprogramming Coach and Certified NLP and Hypnotherapy Practitioner, I blend subconscious reprogramming, nervous system regulation, faith, and mindset work to help you change the patterns that shape your thoughts, emotions, choices, and expectations.
I work with women who are self-aware and capable, who often know exactly what they need to do, but still find themselves repeating the same patterns in love, money, confidence, visibility, or business.
If something in my story feels familiar, I hope you’ll stay awhile. Listen to the podcast, Available For MORE, join a Group Healing Experience, or explore private mentorship and coaching.
Wherever you begin, I hope this work helps you trust yourself more deeply, release the need to have everything figured out, and open your hands to more of what life and God have for you.